歲半囡囡最近試過懶地，怎辦？

megan

最近出街試過一唔開心就會懶地(俯下)但不出聲，我試過立即離開她視線範圍，第一次她瞓了一會就追去找我；見到我後再懶地(俯下)，我再離開，她就若無其事的變成仰睡，就像睡在床上般，洋洋得意；一兩分鐘後我忍不住就抱起她。

如果再有這種情況，應該在安全情況下離開她(在別的地方偷看她)，還是她開始發脾氣就引開她的注意？

emilyfun88

我個囝都試過2次,我企係隔離由得佢瞓係商場半粒鐘.之後就算再有妞計,都凈係企係到,沒有再瞓街了.
另試過1次妞買1對米奇筷子,我話這樣東西不啱佢的年紀用,這裡沒有啱用果種,我應承去另一地方買過對啱用的給他,但他仍妞了半粒鐘,最終都沒有買,不過我有即日帶佢去買1對啱用的比佢.
我明白當時真係好尷尬,但我諗一定要堅持不好妥協,否則你聰明的小朋友會變本加勵的.
另我會在晚上分享心事時間時,說他瞓街妞計的事令我好唔心,他就答應唔會再瞓街.

megan

謝謝你的分享，那當時你的兒子是多大？

sidneywong

My kid of 2 years old. When she lies on the ground, sometimes, I will ask her to lie again when we arrive home. Sometimes, I will hide so that she can't find me. Sometimes, I will stand/wait beside her without saying. Sometimes, I will carry her. It really depend on the situation & your patience.  

I don't prefer to yell at her.

I agree telling her your feeling is a good way when you & the kid are calm.

megan

一方面我想硬著心腸，不理她無理的哭鬧；一方面又擔心她會成日唔開心，唔開心的心情持續刺激她的情感控制區(杏仁核)。
我會嘗試跟她分享心事，謝。