sosical problem

sidneywong

Hi,

My daughter is 2 years old. One day, she picked some leaves from the ground. One boy got my daughter's leaves from her hand suddenly. I asked the boy to stop. But later on, I think my reaction on this is a bit rude but I don't know how to do it correctly to show to my daughter that she/I can't be so weak.

Pls adv how should I do to make the "balance". Tks.

best regards,
Sidney

rainbowgloria

Hi Sidney，

首先，十分欣賞你有很高的自省能力！相信要不斷回顧日常生活中自己的行爲會否對女兒有壞影響，並不容易啊！

從你所描述的文字看來，看不到你的行爲有何不當；但若果你仍然擔心，當下次發生類似情況時，你可以考慮用堅定的眼神和語氣望着那位孩子（若情況許可，更可輕輕握住他的小手或搭着他雙肩），跟他說這樣搶去別人東西是不對的，請他把東西還給物品之原有者，若果他仍不肯，可重覆類似的説話並保持堅定的態度。

此處理方法既能主持公道，不需擔心被視爲弱者，亦不失儀態，因爲你是禮貌地請他遵守規則。不知此方法對你來説是否可行呢？但你原本的做法也是可以的，我只是多提供一個方法讓你參考啊！

P.S. 有一個這麽盡責的媽媽，作爲你的女兒，真幸福呢！

Gloria Leung

sidneywong

Hi Gloria,

Really tks.

best regards,
Sidney