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作者: s0905031    時間: 2010-2-1 17:40     標題: 睇心情才叫人

我個女3歲半, 唔係咁願叫人....
但有時又會自動自覺, 好似見到校車姊姊, 又會主動叫佢早晨, 再見,
屋企管理員佢日日都見. 有時會叫, 有時人地叫佢都唔理, 又唔望人...
如果見到好耐無見嘅親戚, 更加唔理人, 我同佢講, 要叫人, 佢唔理我, 走埋一邊....
自問都有禮貌, 我見到所有人都會叫, 佢應該睇到...
我要點同佢講呢?
點教佢呢?
作者: rainbowgloria    時間: 2010-2-2 00:42

你好!
很高興看到你說「自問都有禮貌, 我見到所有人都會叫, 佢應該睇到...
」呢!
非常欣賞你着重身教的重要性啊!

不知你會否介意在這裏分享多些你之前用過教小朋友禮貌的方法呢?
如果不介意,你在這裏分享一下好嗎?
可以讓我們一起看看還有甚麽方法可以做得更好呢!^^

Gloria Leung
作者: s0905031    時間: 2010-2-2 09:20

thx! ^^
有時侯係屋企, 佢要我幫佢做某事情, 我經常都提佢:你要人地幫你要講咩架?
佢會好順咁講: 我要飲水水呀, 唔該媽咪....
管理員幫我們開門, 我會好自然咁講 :唔該曬。。。
佢又會跟我講唔該曬 (仲好大聲)。。。
係都唔叫人喎。。。。
多數係出街見人之前我都提一提佢: 你一陣見到叔叔要叫人喎,要做個有禮貌的小朋友。。。
佢點頭答應我。。。。但到真係見到,佢都係做唔到>_<
你愈迫佢叫,佢愈唔叫。。。>_<
我方法有問題嗎???
請多多指教?
thank you ~~!!
作者: kikicookie    時間: 2010-2-2 15:47

我個個咪又係咁,現在三歲多d,叫親佢叫人,佢實唔叫,有時仲寧轉面,
有時出街前會同佢係屋企講下,問佢見到人要講乜呀,佢識答,
但出街見到人又係另一會事,好似有時去探公公婆婆,去之前已經同佢講一陣入屋要叫人,做個有禮貌小朋友,
先多人鍚,同埋代表有禮貌乖孩子,但次次都係唔叫人,試過去圖書館同佢睇有關呢類書呢,都係冇用~~~~
作者: ceciliawwy1    時間: 2010-2-3 00:45

I have same experience.  My boy will turn to 3 next month.  When he was younger, he was a polite boy.   He greeted 看更 every time and he would say hi to others when I asked him to do so.    He also would say "唔該晒" loudly to those who helped him.   I told him I was proud of his behaviour and this is a good behaviour.   

However, in the past 3 months, he refused to do so or only greet people when he was in the mood.   

He asked me what's the meaning of "respect" couple days ago, I explained to him with examples and told him that greeting people is kind of respectful behaviour.  Today he could do it again.     I hope he can understand.
作者: fishkarie    時間: 2010-2-3 08:48

Same experience when my daughter is at 3 years old.  However, situation has suddenly changed shen she grows up at 4 years old.  Now she is 5 and is willing and actively to say hello to everyone.  I don't know it is the common "problem" for such age (i.e. 2-3 years old) children.  But I think when they grow up, and the parents always remind them, they will know what is politeness and will know that people like children who are polite.
作者: rainbowgloria    時間: 2010-2-8 00:21

首先跟各位抱歉一聲,由於近來網絡問題,經常上不到網,所以現在才能回覆呢!

似乎很多家長都遇到類似的情況啊!
而家長們也嘗試了不同的方法去培養自己小朋友的禮貌呢!
非常欣賞你們的心思啊!

其實當經過多次提醒孩子但依然沒有效時,可以考慮自己說故事/提醒孩子時所用的語氣,
建議用一些輕鬆的語氣,避免用説教的。
另外,小孩子是需要父母陪同的,他們大多不喜歡自己去做一件事,
可以嘗試跟孩子一起向別人打招呼/感謝,
例如:(向孩子說)“我地一陣一齊叫叔叔吖,(跟孩子一同面向叔叔說)叔叔早晨!”
/(向孩子說)“我地一齊唔該叔叔先,(跟孩子一同面向叔叔說)唔該叔叔!”

還有,比賽的方法也不錯啊!孩子也喜歡刺激的感覺。
起初,可以嘗試跟孩子比賽“鬥快”,可以跟孩子比賽誰先向人打招呼/說感謝。
當孩子比你先說時,記謹要讚他一下以表欣賞啊!
經過一段時間後,可以嘗試跟孩子換一換比賽項目呢!

不知此方法是否適合你們呢?^^

Gloria Leung




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