Totally agree with Jacko, i had read the book of 周弘先生, when my boy is new born.
我們都是一邊做人啊媽，一邊學，時間不等我們，孩子大得好快，有 D 野 miss 左，就要辛苦追番，你要比前更努力，如婆婆家和自己家不遠的話，放工後要立即去婆婆家見她，和她說故事，除了親子，朗讀圖書可今她語文能力好，將來作文都會好 d. Tell her you love her, always smile with her,
除了她真的做錯事，否則不好對她罵或發脾氣！她會 learn from you. Sorry, I told you the true thing is:
Your daughter is only 沒安全感,但不是他的錯，是你做得不過，不過你可以加油，辛苦 d 但會有回報！作者: rickychan 時間: 2010-1-6 15:59
My elder boy was also like that before, he is now almost 6 years old and has improved a lot in the last few months. Both my boy and we as parents have changed somehow to achieve the improvement.
1. we took him to "play therapy" so that he could release his pressure and learn to express hs emotions.
2. we control our own emotions when he has been naughty, we tell him we focus on his action and still love him. tell him we teach him because if love him and does not mean to punish him. tell him and explain to him in very detail
3. we go to talks and seminars, talk to the social worker, we go to the "play therapy for parents course" which give us very different views on kids and teach us how to improve the relationship and show our love to the kids.
4. give him more encouragement, your girl needs your love and the foundation of your relationship is not good enough, if you have good relationship, she will listen to you.
5. try playing close games with her, like "tickling" and "hugging" and "carrying", very effective in improving the relationship. I try to do it every night for at least 10mins.作者: fionawong 時間: 2010-1-19 16:38
